Friday, October 31, 2008

The Importance of Family

I obviously haven't been perseverating quite enough on this blog- my last post being in August! :-O I've been on vacation for the past two weeks (today is my last day!) and I've had a lot of time to think about a lot of stuff.  So here we go.

My sister got married last friday.  She looked absolutely beautiful.  That's what everyone always says.  I found something more meaningful in her wedding.  She acted beautiful.  When I saw her say her vows to her new husband, I was overcome with a profound sense of happiness for both of them.  I mentioned this in my toast- she has truly found her "one and only."  They both are perfect for eachother, and they complement each other so well.   They will make a beautiful family (they already have a great start!).  I pray that God will bless them with lots of little kiddies!

Of course with weddings comes the reception- and my family knows how to make a reception fun! It was so great to spend the time with all of my cousins and aunts/uncles.  We danced all night, pausing only to eat dinner and make a few trips to the bar.  (Some of us more than others....)  Everyone had such a great time.  I realized then that I LOVE MY FAMILY.  Sure, I always loved them, but for some reason, it struck me then stronger than ever.

Not too long ago (in August), we lost my grandfather.  He was so important to all of us, and we were all very sad when he passed away.  We knew it was better for him, so he didn't have to suffer and so he could be with Grandma again, but we still were sad.  We all pulled together then and I was proud to be part of such a great family.   In good times and bad, we are a great family!!

We'll have plenty more weddings- my sister and I were only the first two.  In 2009 we have three, and I'm sure that's only the beginning too!!  Being one of 23 grandchildren means going to a lot of weddings!

I used to worry that once Grandma and Pop were gone that our family would lose touch, just based on shear size.  I now see that I was worrying for little reason- we have a strong bond that can't be broken that easily.

I LOVE YOU GUYS!!!! :-D

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